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Tuesday 9 September 2014

why are people so two faced ?

I'm a firm believer in telling the truth and being upfront. Sadly I seem to be in the minority. People pretend to be your friend, but when the chips are down they are no where to be found. For those of you who have genuine friendships, you are truly blessed. I recently moved to a village, but shortly after moving I became critically ill. I thought that there was a sense of Community, how very wrong I am. I live amongst sad, miserable, and nothing better to do than gossip people. Some could argue that that is to be expected living in a village.  What I really think is tragic is that these same people smile, and pretend they are friendly, but really they are looking for an opportunity to back stab and all the while they are gossiping and plotting.
I would suggest that if you can't be genuine then leave people alone because all you do is cause bad feelings. I have found some of the locals to be small minded, unwilling to embrace anything new. Rules apply to some and not others.  Some of the locals are exremely rude and up themselves because they belong to a committee,  or should I say that seems to be the excuse for their rudeness ! Sadly I have begun to diminish my respect for these people and not wanting to sound ageist, but why is it mostly the older generation that are the perpetrators?  These villagers do not have the right to accost, shout and be abusive under any circumstances.